The Chaos Of Life

It has been a crazy sort of calm the last few weeks.  We decided, on a whim sort of, to join Jon in KC two weeks earlier than planned.  Lesson learned.  We don't like being apart so it probably won't work out in future rotations.  We found an apartment just outside Kansas City on Craigslist and went with it.  Partly because it was the only furnished, short term rental we could find and partly because it was cheaper than a hotel with more than one room. 

Here is a random picture before we left Utah.  Vanessa actually wore this for a few hours.  I had to take a picture.

 While in Kansas City (we were on the Missouri side) we went to the Arts Festival, which was pretty cool.  We also went to Adam-Ondi-Ahman and Liberty Jail.  We even took a family pic, which will be posted once I figure out my favorite.  We took fifteen, of the same pose.  Five in a row on a timer.  Ha ha.

I decided to heat up some chili one non-cooking night.  Benson LOVED it.  His stomach however, did not.  He was up for at least an hour, wailing, until I finally realized the poor kid had a tummy ache and pulled out the blessed gas drops.

This was hilarious.  Vanessa wanted a pony tail in her hair.  I pulled it up and then told her I wanted to take a picture.  I wanted to take a profile shot so I told her to look at the sink.  She walked over and put her nose right on the cupboard.  Not exactly what I had in mind, but I had to take the shot anyway.

I walked into the room to find Vanessa dressed like this one morning.  I laugh, "ha, did Vanessa pick her clothes today?"  Jon looks at her sheepishly and then back at me.  "What's wrong with it?"  HAHAHAHA!

Love this face.  "Don't mess!"

 Trying to find something new to do, we went to a lake one Saturday.  It was closed, bummer.  But it still had pretty walking trails and Vanessa loved the flowers.

I had to include this one because of how blue his eyes are.  And yes, he does look miserable.  Probably because he was.  He had a cold and cute four teeth in two weeks.  Who wouldn't be?!

 I heard the Independence Visitors Center was actually really fun for kids so I decided to take the kids one day.  It was not as exciting to Vanessa as I had hoped.  But I cried like a baby in the family movie and Vanessa was BFF almost instantly with the sister missionary that gave us the tour.  And yes, this is the best picture I got.  I could have walked back up to the front to get a picture by the sign, but I was WAY too lazy for that.  Memory noted, as good as it gets.

 And here is my shot of the Community of Christ temple across the street.  Kind of an interesting structure.  I've seen it before, but I think it would be neat to go inside.  I heard that you can, but I didn't try with the kids.

Vanessa just being her cute self.  Notice our awesome furnishings.  It was kind of like renting your Grandma's apartment with a bad smoky/cat smell.

 Jon finished up St Lukes on a Friday and had to be at his new rotation in St Louis on Monday.  So, Saturday morning we loaded up the kids and headed out.  The drive was not as bad as I thought it would be.  I fed Benson lots of Goldfish and Vanessa watched movies.  It went pretty quick actually.  When we got to St Louis, we had a serious headache getting our hotel situation sorted out.  A long story I don't even want to type up.  But, we ended up choosing a Days Inn because it had a continental breakfast (with waffles) and a heated pool and the heater did work.  So we got there and the heater was going but the pool was still freezing.  Vanessa only lasted about fifteen minutes before she was literally purple.  And the waffles were a step down from Eggos.  Bummer.  But, it did have an indoor play are that Vanessa loved and we spent lots of time there.  We had to stay at a hotel for three nights because our apartment wasn't ready yet.  I am so glad we decided not to try the hotel route.  Shoot me if we had.  I was sick most of those days from just general crappy eating.  But there aren't many options with just a microwave and a mini fridge that doesn't work.  So glad to have a kitchen.  I even made rolls today.  They're delish.  We got into our new place on Tuesday.  It is fabulous.  I really like this place.  It is a three story townhome, with lots of space.  My only complaint is that it is nicely furnished and I'm kind of afraid the kids are going to damage things.  I don't want to have to pay for damages!  The bed is awesome.  So far, I haven't woken up with anything aching.  I love that.  The bed has a memory foam pad, which I have always wanted to try, and now I know that they are pretty much wonderful.
So on Wednesday, the kids and I met up with some friends that I haven't seen in YEARS.  Kim and Travis Seyboldt were in town on business.  Coincidence?!  We went to the zoo and then up to "The Hill" for some fab Italian sandwiches.  The kids fell asleep in the car so Kim got her laptop and we talked photoshop and photography and general mommy chat in the car.  Because that is what you do when your kids are actually asleep!

This orangutan was HUGE and just stared at everyone. 

Benson loved seeing everything, though he was defintely happy to keep his distance and just point at them.

Today, Jon and I hauled the kids out to the Science Museum and drove by the arch.  We wanted to get out and walk around but parking was $5 and the kids just weren't having it.  So went home and we'll have to save the arch for another day.  Just add it to the list I suppose.  There are a lot of things I want to see here.

The Past Week Or So...

I don't have any pictures to add because our desktop is in storage and we only have our laptop.  Which means to photoshop.  Boohoo.  I realize I could still load the pictures onto my computer, but then what would I edit them with?!  I have to at least fix skin tones.  They're always off with digital.  Anyway, when I get that figured out, I'll possibly post some pictures.  In the meantime, I brief update.
On September 15, Benson turned one!  Holy cow.  Where did that year go?  He is amazing in so many ways and has the cutest personality.  I have absolutely loved watching him grow into a little man.  He loves to play ball, and with cars.  He shakes his bum when he gets excited and has the cutest grin in the whole world.  He gets a twinkle in his eye before he makes mischief and he loves to tease his sister. 
On September 16, Vanessa, Benson, and I flew out to Kansas City, MO to join Jon.  So happy we did.  I seriously couldn't believe how much the kids missed their daddy.  Vanessa still tells me almost daily that "daddy is better Mommy."  She wouldn't let him go the night we got in and gives him all kinds of hugs and kisses every night when he gets home.
On September 20, Vanessa turned 28 months.  That's right 2 years and 4 months.  She is getting so big too.  Her vocabulary has nearly doubled in the last month or so.  She was a good talker before, but now she can express herself even better and has even more to say!  She counts 1-2-3-7-8-9-10-11.  And she can say her ABCs to p and sometimes s. 
Today I am fifteen weeks (but who is counting right?).  I am still waiting to get the 2nd trimester energy. It may have something to do with the fact that Benson has been up every night this week for at least an hour.  He has a cold and is getting teeth.  An evil combination. 
Jon is rocking his clinical.  It's in a cardiac unit so he is seeing a lot of procedures he hasn't seen before.  It's also pretty intense anesthesia since most of the patients are pretty sick and having major surgery.  He is enjoying it though and he likes most of the doctors he works with.  He had a couple crazy days and/or nights right before we got out here.  Since we have been here though, he has been home at a pretty reasonable time everyday.  Even though getting home at 5 is still almost a ten hour day, he still pretends to have energy for the kids!

Playing with Water

I have wanted to try mixing water with food coloring for a while.  I thought maybe I could teach Vanessa how to make different colors.  She did really like it when I made purple.  But when I asked her later how to make purple, she didn't have a clue.  Oh well.  It was still a fun experiment.

 Benson was happy to play with Vanessa shoes for a good ten minutes.  He even offered them to me every time I tried to get him to look at the camera.

 I had to take his shirt off to keep it from getting stained since he was crawling right through all the dye.  He is showing off his huge muscles here.

And this is Vanessa showing off her skills on the tramp.  This picture just makes me laugh.  Eyes closed, tongue out and all.  She loves loves loves to jump on the tramp and I am fairly sure she would do it all day if someone would jump with her that long.

Faster Is A Girl, Right?!

We all know old wives' tales have a 50/50 of being right.  So I guess we'll see how it turns out for this little one, but we are all waiting until March!  Heartbeat was 174 and going strong (phew!). 

On a random note, do the 3D ultrasounds look a little weird to anyone else?  Maybe when the baby is a little older and more developed it won't look quite so weird.  But how cool is it to see their little "womb home"?  That part is pretty sweet.  Can you tell I have never had a 3D ultrasound before?  Lol

Halloween Costumes

Benson and Vanessa are going to be matching skeletons for Halloween.  I realize I am planning this a bit early but I saw them at Marshalls for $8.  They are pjs, so they will get more wear out of them and we'll just layer them down with thermals and other pjs for the big night of trick or treating.  Hopefully St Louis ward does a trunk or treat.  Here's to hopin right?  Cause we've got the outfits!
When I told Vanessa she was a skeleton and they were bones, she told me that she was scary!  I told her she wasn't scary, she's cute.  So then she told grandma "I'm a mountain, I'm no scary.  I'm cute!"  I guess mountain and skeleton sound kind of similar and could be confused.  They are both new things to her.

Things We've Been Up To

 Vanessa discovered this hammock and she loves it.  She wants to get in and spin all the time.  This morning we had this conversation as she was spinning.

Vanessa:  "I miss my daddy."

Me:  "I miss daddy too."

Vanessa:  "I no want go to church."

Me:  "You don't?"

Vanessa:  "No.  I want to go to the store."

Me: "The store?"

Vanessa: "No.  I want to go to Target."

Me:  "Target? What's at Target?"

Vanessa: "Grass."

Me: "oh."

 They both love their otter pops.  They melt slower here, which actually works in our favor.

 Benson makes a ginormous mess and I had to dump water all over the deck.  You can see his legs are all red from crawling through the red sugar water.

 I was totally excited to make goo.  I saw the idea on pinterest (my new love) and couldn't wait to try it.  The picture above is right after I poured the borax/water into the glue/water.  It immediately starts forming into a giant glob.  You pull it out and this is what you get.

 I think it's pretty sweet.

 We also helped grandma pick tomatoes out of the garden.  Vanessa helped pick a few and then decided she just wanted to have us hand them to her and she put them in the bucket.  Probably better, she grabbed a couple orange ones.  Benson sampled the tomatoes as well as the dirt.

 He only thought they were cool until his teeth popped them open and he got a taste.  He would spit it out pretty quick at that point.  But they must have looked really enticing because he tried like three or four.

Vanessa cracks me up all day long.  She is at the age where she just has funny, random things to say.  Lately, the monsters and the dinosaurs have been after her.  She also likes to growl at us and then tell us we are scared.  She LOVES all the attention she is getting from grandma and grandpa and cousins.  My mom has to put her to bed every night now, which isn't the worst thing in the world, until grandma isn't around..... But I guess we'll just deal with that later. 

Vanessa has started to look after her brother.  She still does get a little jealous occasionally but she definitely loves and cares about him.  Whenever we go anywhere, she always says "Benson come too."  There are certain toys that are Benson's and no one but her is allowed to take that toy from him.  And when he cries, if I don't get to him right away, she will walk over and rub his fuzzy little head and say "it's okay buddy."  If that doesn't melt your heart, I don't know what would.

Today she would run up to us, yelling "I'm gonna get you."  Then do a little tickle thing and we would scream "aaaahhh."  After doing this a dozen times, Benson started screaming with us and rubbing his hands down his temples.  Kind of like an oh-no motion.  Funny boy.

Vanessa went to a new nursery today with no problems, though she was definitely ready to go when I picked her up.  And Benson slept through 1 1/2 hours of church.  Needless to say, it was the most church I have listened to in a LONG time.

Benson still refuses to stand.  Not really sure what to do about that one.  He just doesn't use his legs in general but his arms are like freakin macho man.  Or michelin man, one of the two.  He has the funnest personality.  He loves to dance, clap, entertain, flirt, and just generally be happy.  Though he will always let us know when he is ticked.  I have also noticed lately that he prefers men (except I am still the favorite, ha ha).  He warms up to the guys way before he warms up to the ladies.  Benson loves to play in the sink and usually cries when I pull him away after being washed.  He is also starting to learn his animal sounds.  I don't think he knows any except dog, thanks to the neighbor's dog, but he will repeat them after us.  He is also saying "do" (as in dog, without the g) followed by "ru" (as in ruff without the ff).

I feel pretty lucky to have these kiddos.  Someone asked me their ages the other day and when I replied 2 and 1, they said I was brave.  I think what they really meant was crazy, but honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way.  I think they will totally love and look after each other as they grow up together.

Twinners

 My mom bought these twinner dresses for Vanessa and her cousin, Micah.  Micah was so excited to wear these and of course I left them in the room Benson was napping in.  So they had to wait a whole two hours to try them on.  And then, she really didn't want her pictures taken after all.  Typical five year old I guess.  Vanessa is just always hard to take pictures of, but we did get one or two I thought turned out okay.  This second one is not a good one of Micah but I am ranking it up there as one of the best smiles of Vanessa caught on camera.  She is a tough model, she does not like the camera.  It may or may not have something to do with the fact that we are ALWAYS taking her picture.

Climbing Trees and Penguin Hats

 Vanessa has been obsessed with climbing trees ever since I attempted to climb one in Florida.  It was pathetic.  But this one had a low branch that she actually could climb with some help.  Hope the neighbors didn't mind her in their apple tree.

We have been doing a lot of shopping.  Trying to find this little guy a new car seat.  It is killing me making this decision.  Why?  I have no idea.  You would think it was life altering or something.  I think I walked into a Target and picked on in a matter of ten minutes when we got Vanessa's.  And I have love/hate issues with the thing so maybe that's why this is so rough.  I want the perfect seat and I'm having a hard time deciding what features are the most important.  I'll let you know when I finally decide.  I also have pictures on my camera I need to download.  There are some super cute ones.  These were just what was on my Ipod.

For Jon

We miss him already. He flew out this morning, super early, headed for Florida to drive our cars to Kansas City. His dad is helping out, thanks Matt! He also gets a fun detour on the road, meeting up with his brothers Tommy and Steven in Little Rock. Then they will drive somewhere to go to the Ole Miss v BYU game. It's late and I honestly can't remember where the Ole Miss campus is. It's not Little Rock and it's not Memphis, but it's around there. My brain these days! Anyway, I probably won't be seeing Jon for a whole month. The kids and I are staying with my parents for a month and then we'll go to St Louis for three months with Jon. It's going to be a long month. I kinda like the guy. But, I promised Jon I would keep the blog up to date with lots of pictures of the kids. So here is what we did today. Amidst getting all our stuff into storage and a little unpacking.

We played in the sand

And ate popsicles.  This was the first time Benson got to hold his own.  The cold surprised him a little, when he got a big chunk.  But he went crazy for that sugary water.  He ate/spilled all of his and half of Vanessa's.

We also jumped on the tramp, looked at the clouds, made a huge mess at dinner, took a bath and Vanessa crashed reading books at 7:00.  Benson followed soon after around 7:30.  Yes, that is a record.  Neither kid took naps (well Benson skipped his afternoon nap) and we spent ample time outside running out energy.  I don't remember Utah summers being this pleasant.  Have they always been this way or am I really that used to Florida heat?  I could sit outside in the shade here at the hottest time of the day and feel great.  In Florida, my under layer would have been sticking to my body and sweat all over my hairline.  It's a nice change.  Though I do have a sudden need for chapstick and lotion that is not so nice.  I guess I have a love/hate with humidity. 

We miss you already Jon.  Hope you have a fun road trip and rock your cardiac rotation.  We'll keep the pictures coming!

I'll Miss you Florida

We are leaving in just one short week.  We actually have to have our house completely packed by Sunday because they give us a three day windown of when the truck will come.  Nuts, I know.  They are supposed to let us know by Friday a definite time.  It has been kinda crazy and kinda chill around here at the same time.  I've been trying to take the kids out for half the day and pack for half the day.  It's exhausting.  I feel tired all the time.  And on top of that, all the thinking and planning and anxiety and excitement has left me NOT sleeping very well.  Sheesh.  But, before we leave I felt I MUST write some of my favorite things about Florida.
I love the winters.  Summer is okay.  Ironically, I felt I enjoyed it more last summer, when I was pregnant.  Weird, I know.  But it's just so darn hot and honestly, with two babies, I get bored going to the beach and sitting on the sand and building a gazillion sand castles that are destroyed in five seconds.  Yep, that was pretty positive.  So, back to winter.  Winter is amazing.  Parks all the time. Walks all the time.  The weather is just perfect.  Plus, it's Christmas and there are some people that really get into the spirit and do awesome decorations.  We went and looked at least once a week before we went out to Utah.
There is awesome shopping here.  I really am not much of a shopper and buying things on loans definitely looses it's appeal, but there are some awesome stores here.  I will definitely miss the year round green and palm trees. 
I love how chill the ward is.  I don't feel that pressure to let a calling be your life.  People get their stuff done, but they also don't expect hours and hours and hours. 
I love that no one really does their hair.  Honestly, it gets ruined in about five minutes after stepping outside anyway.  Why bother?  And because everyone is always at the pool or the beach, I don't feel like everyone is all judgey about swimsuits and cellulite.  It's pretty awesome.
The thing I will definitely miss the VERY most and possibly an unbelievable amount is my friends.  Of course, all of them are from our ward.  I honestly don't know how people move across the country, not know anyone and then just magically make friends.  Jon's classmates have eachother, but we aren't quite like them.  I mean, we did take our kids clubbing once, but that was totally by accident and a traumatizing experience.  So really, I don't know what we would have done without the ward.  And I LOVE the ladies in our ward.  They are some of the most amazing women here, who have seriously impacted my life.  I just can't imagine what I would have done here without them.  I don't know that I ever would have made friends if it hadn't been for the church.  What an amazing organization, in so many ways.  I will miss you Plantation and Davie ward ladies.  I love you all and I seriously hope to see you all again someday!

Pics and Update

Benson is a total mama's boy. But then again what boy doesn't love his mother more than anything?

Benson recently discovered what makes him a boy... and every time he finds it, this is his face.Vanessa is becoming quite the artist. She loves to color in books, on the walls, and on herself.

Sadly, we sold the motorcycle. Benson enjoyed it while he could.
Sleeping Beauties (which is now Vanessa's favorite movie)

We were probably watching a very manly movie, like Care Bears or Curious George.

Vanessa is becoming quite a good swimmer, though she still doesn't like going under water.

We'll be leaving Florida in just a few weeks after living here for the past 14 months. It'll be interesting to see how the kids adjust to a new place. They're used to going to the beach, pool, splash park... pretty much swimming everywhere they go. We've become accustomed to all the lizards, snakes, frogs, and ducks everywhere. The reptiles love to hang out at our front door and even get inside every once in a while. We now have two alligators living in the pond 30 yards away from us.

Lynette is an amazing mother that takes such good care of the kids 24/7. She also takes care of me, which is no easy task. She has become a wonderful chef and frequently surprises me with incredible meals. In addition to being a mother, wife and chef, she is studying to become a childbirth instructor, continues to do photography, and is a young woman's advisor, teaching every Sunday. I'm impressed with how much she does and how well she does it... she's a lot busier than I am.

Other than school I'm serving as the exec secretary in the bishopric and I'm enjoying it more than I thought I would. I'm currently rotating at University Hospital in Tamarac. Most patients are older and very sick so it's been a good experience. There are plenty of opportunities for me to practice general, MAC and regional anesthesia as we do cases ranging from hip replacements to spinal fusions to colonoscopies. Classes will end in a few weeks and then we begin a year of clinical rotations around the country. Our schedule is as follows:

Sept: Kansas City, MO

Oct-Dec: St. Louis, MO

Jan - Feb: Denver, CO

Mar: Logan, UT

April: Salt Lake City, UT

May: Panama City, FL

June: Albany, GA

July: Albuquerque, NM

Lynette and the kids will joining me from Oct to April. The rest of the time I'll be on my own while they stay in Utah with family. Really, I don't know how I'm going to survive without them.